Dynamic Friction
Chandrasekhar’s (1960) formula:
dv/dt = -(v/v3)16π2(ln Λ)G2m(m+M)f(v)v2dv
where Λ is a factor of order 1 involving the masses,
impact parameter and initial velocity, f is the stellar
density, M is the intruder, m is the stellar mass.
If the intruder is mass, M >> m, then
dv/dt ~ -v 16π2(ln Λ)G2mM f(0)
So the force proportional to velocity in this case, a
viscous friction.  Concerned with the mass density of
stars, not individual masses.  Force dependent on M,
intruder mass.  The FORCE goes as mass squared.